Dawn does not arrive because of the rooster's crow.
We should learn to find joy and happiness in our work, and also know how to share that joy and happiness with others.
Because we understand the vastness and diversity of the world, and are aware of our own limitations and narrowness, we allow ourselves not to understand others, and allow others not to understand us. We do not try to dominate others' wills, nor do we easily submit to evaluation systems established by others. This is perhaps the freest solitude and the gentlest rebellion. You will create a small world around you that seeks common ground while preserving differences, harmonious yet distinct, tranquil and detached.
On a barren plot of land, grass grows the fastest, followed by shrubs, and then various miscellaneous trees. The grass and shrubs disappear due to lack of sunlight. After a long time, pine trees will grow out from under the miscellaneous trees, slowly surpassing them, and ultimately standing tall for thousands of years. People are the same. Some are like grass, shrubs, and miscellaneous trees, growing fast on the surface but not lasting. Others grow slowly but are like pine trees; once they grow, they become great talents.
How to deal with people you "dislike": The entire process of Buddhist practice is essentially the process of subduing the mind. This is the method that runs through it all; there is no other way. Subdue your unbalanced mind, impure mind, discriminating mind, divisive mind, hateful mind, and ignorant mind. Keep your mind on the path, seeing all sentient beings as Bodhisattvas, while recognizing that only I am truly an ordinary mortal. Believe that there are no more people you dislike before your eyes. If a true practitioner does not see faults in the world, then keeping your mind at peace will bring peace to all beings.