Some trains, once missed, can never be caught up with again; some mistakes, once made, can never be undone.
We often lack happiness in life because we fail to cherish what we currently possess. We constantly imagine a "paradise" ahead or expect better things in the future, thereby ignoring what is right in front of us. Unbeknownst to us, what we currently hold is the only thing we can truly grasp. Only by sincerely enjoying the present can we experience true happiness.
Compensation is always relative and endless, both internally and externally, and the compensation dynamics of competitors are uncontrollable. Career opportunities are not limited to one place; personal careers are dynamic, and other locations may offer more enticing platforms. Moreover, a company's business is often the boss's business, not necessarily the employee's. Emotions cannot fill one's stomach. Being passive means being unable to take control of others.
As long as you live with confidence and express your unique style, let others say what they want. As Dante said, "Follow your own path, and let others talk."