For an observer, perspective is often more critical than distance.
I have experienced failure repeatedly in my life, and it is precisely these setbacks that have become the foundation of my eventual success.
In Europe, luxury consumption has evolved into a lifestyle habit. Provided one has the disposable income, people naturally purchase relatively expensive ready-to-wear clothing, evening gowns, and accessories without viewing them as capital for showing off. In contrast, in China, when people spend large sums of money on an item, they tend to view it as an investment. Those with genuine financial strength invest in the quality of life, while those lacking such strength invest in the illusion of possessing their dream lifestyle.
He does not wish to see you thin or haggard; happiness, joy, and health are his deepest expectations for you. Therefore, in the days when he cannot be by your side, please take good care of yourself. This is not only a responsibility to your own body but also a way to alleviate his concerns. Marriage is a "lifetime matter" that profoundly impacts a person's entire life. The most common mistake young people make when choosing a partner today is falling into the trap of "image-only" criteria. They blindly pursue stunning appearances and refuse to heed rational advice or warnings. Immersed in the dream of romantic fantasy, they make hasty choices, ignoring the examination of their partner's character and habits. Deceived solely by beautiful exteriors and easily trusting sweet words, they rashly commit to a union.
"A gentleman loves wealth, but obtains it by proper means." This principle applies to individuals and is even more crucial for corporate organizations. Otherwise, the wealth gained lacks the support of "righteousness"; it cannot last long and may even bring long-term harm.