The person you loved is me, and the person you hated is also me; the person you cared about is me, and the person you disliked is also me. Precisely because that person is you, I have revealed all my facets before you without reserve. I wait full of hope for you to accept every version of me, rather than being scared away and turning your back. Only a selfish person would love only the best of me; only a tolerant person can bear the worst of me.
When you make routine tasks different, you are closer to promotion. The most frightening scenario is knowing exactly what to do tomorrow, what to do next week, and even where you will be ten years from now. True effort in work is not about stubbornly sticking to one thing, but about constantly improving so that your competitors feel uneasy.
Have you been criticized for being impulsive? Have you been accused of being impatient? Have you been called immature? In our youth, we often face such judgments but are powerless to refute them. In reality, you are just thinking about the future, striving to work harder, and hoping to change yourself often, so you slightly adjust your posture. Remember, When you change, the world will often feel a bit uncomfortable.
A friend once asked, "Why is my life so hard?!" Life is inherently difficult. Studying, the gaokao, job hunting; overtime, cooking, competing for positions; car loans, mortgages, difficulty finding a partner; bosses scolding, colleagues excluding, parents aging. When you have many friends, you hate that you have no money; when you have lots of money, you hate that you have no friends. Actually, most people are like this. It is just that you find everything hard, while they consider everything as a matter of course.
To live comfortably, everyone advises you not to care about others' evaluations. However, not everyone can do this. Since you cannot completely ignore external opinions, please do your best to handle the tasks at hand well, so that people give you positive evaluations, rather than always being busy refuting the negative ones.
