原文中文
予人方便,便是待己仁厚。人心是相互的,你让别人一步,别人才会敬你一尺。人心如路,越计较,路越狭窄;越宽容,路越宽阔。不与君子计较,他会加倍奉还;不与小人计较,方能免受其扰。
该句使用比喻结构将抽象概念具体化。
Helping others is being kind to yourself. Hearts are reciprocal: if you yield a step, others will respect you a foot. The mind is like a road: the more you fuss over trifles, the narrower it becomes; the more tolerant you are, the wider it grows. Do not bicker with a gentleman, and he will repay you twofold; do not bicker with a petty person, so as to avoid being caught in their schemes.
予人方便,便是待己仁厚。人心是相互的,你让别人一步,别人才会敬你一尺。人心如路,越计较,路越狭窄;越宽容,路越宽阔。不与君子计较,他会加倍奉还;不与小人计较,方能免受其扰。
"When we face life with a more generous mindset, we become happier."
"No matter what happens, do not lose your good spirits, for no loss is greater than losing a positive state of mind."
"By changing perspective or adjusting your mindset, you can see a different scene."
"Never expect to be someone whom no one can offend."
"Avoid holding excessive expectations for a safer life."