原文中文
予人方便，便是待己仁厚。人心是相互的，你让别人一步，别人才会敬你一尺。人心如路，越计较，路越狭窄；越宽容，路越宽阔。不与君子计较，他会加倍奉还；不与小人计较，方能免受其扰。
the more tolerant you are the wider it grows
你越宽容，格局就越宽广。
该句使用对比结构强调心态与结果之间的关系。
Helping others is being kind to yourself. Hearts are reciprocal: if you yield a step, others will respect you a foot. The mind is like a road: the more you fuss over trifles, the narrower it becomes; the more tolerant you are, the wider it grows. Do not bicker with a gentleman, and he will repay you twofold; do not bicker with a petty person, so as to avoid being caught in their schemes.
予人方便，便是待己仁厚。人心是相互的，你让别人一步，别人才会敬你一尺。人心如路，越计较，路越狭窄；越宽容，路越宽阔。不与君子计较，他会加倍奉还；不与小人计较，方能免受其扰。
"Forgiving others for recognized mistakes is a virtue that everyone should possess."
"Learn to forgive those who hurt you; everyone has their own struggles."
"Tolerance is a virtue, a form of personal charm formed through hundreds of trials and patience."
"If one can be more open-minded take losses lightly and consider others more you will find your heart expanding"
"Step back and the world becomes vast; yield three points and the mind becomes calm."