In the development of human culture, the sense of sexual shame has always played a significant role. It does not merely signify taboos and concealment; rather, it stems from a sensitivity, excitement, and curiosity towards differences. We can also observe in individual development that the budding of sexual shame is subtly intertwined with the process of enriching one's inner life.
Every encounter is destined by fate, whether the bond is deep or shallow, it is all fate. To follow fate and let it go is the best state of living. Whether bitter or sweet, it is merely an experience in life. In this complex world, maintaining inner peace is the key. Sometimes, being a bit obtuse and silent, not rushing and not being anxious, helps harmonize the body and mind.
In movies, we watch others live the dream lives for us, seeing them love and die on our behalf. When we are moved to tears, after wiping them away, we realize it is nothing but a vanishing illusion; real life remains empty as before.
Do not be overly attached to fame and fortune, lest you carry a heavy burden. Be more tolerant and magnanimous. Wave goodbye, smile, and realize that life is not that big of a deal. For things you want to do, as long as you give your best effort, there is no need to dwell on the results. What matters in life is the process, not the outcome. Regret only for what you have not done, not for what you have already done.
Life is the process of evolving from a little white rabbit to a big gray wolf, and finally to an old fox……