Respond to enmity with rectitude, and respond to virtue with virtue.
While one's father is alive, observe one's aspirations. After the father's death, observe one's conduct. If one does not change the father's way for three years, one may be called filial.
In interacting with others, recommend their strengths and conceal their weaknesses; this is why relationships last.
When the upright are raised to positions above the crooked, the people are satisfied; when the crooked are raised above the upright, the people are not satisfied.
If teaching one corner of a square does not lead the student to understand the other three, I will not repeat it.
The gentleman gives benefit without expense, works people without causing resentment, desires without greed, is comfortable without arrogance, and is dignified without fierceness.
In poverty, do not lose righteousness; in success, do not deviate from the Way.
Extravagance leads to insolence, while frugality leads to narrow-mindedness. Better to be narrow-minded than insolent.
The Ode of Guanju is joyous without being licentious, and sorrowful without being hurtful.
When interacting with friends, be strict yet faithful.
I fear that Ji Sun's worries are not in Zhuan Yu, but within the walls of his own household.
My disciples, do you think I hide anything from you? I hide nothing from you. There is nothing in my conduct that I do not share with you. This is Qiu (Confucius).
Eight rows of dancers performed in the court. If a gentleman can bear this, what cannot he bear?
If actions do not yield results, look for the cause in oneself.
The Way of the gentleman involves four aspects: strength in practicing righteousness, weakness in accepting advice, fear in awaiting salary, and caution in governing oneself.
In serving the ruler, he fulfilled all rituals, yet people thought him flattering.
Wealth and high rank are what people desire; if obtained by improper means, they should not be accepted. Poverty and low status are what people dislike; if removed by improper means, they should not be left. If a gentleman abandons benevolence, how can he achieve his name? A gentleman does not depart from benevolence even for the time it takes to finish a meal. In haste, he is with it; in adversity, he is with it.
Begin with poetry, stand on ritual, and be completed by music.
When walking with two others, there is bound to be a teacher among them. Choose their good qualities and follow them; observe their bad qualities and correct them in yourself.
The gentleman studies widely in literature and restrains himself with ritual; thus, he can avoid deviating from the Way.