生活由我决定，而非由天注定。

原文英文

Integrity implies honesty, sincerity, credit, and trust. Its core lies in winning others' confidence through creditworthiness, while also trusting others with loyalty and sincerity. Only by upholding credit can one build a good reputation.

Anger is like a short-circuited battery, always at the risk of exploding; coldness is like ice in winter, delivering a sudden chill. Offering kindness to others often yields kindness in return; even if met with indifference, one can at least feel a sense of self-worth.

When your messages go unanswered, when your care is brushed off, when your enthusiasm is met with coldness, and when your sincerity is met with falseness, it is not because they are too busy. Rather, it is because they do not keep you in their hearts. Due to a lack of cherishing, they are indifferent; due to a lack of thoughtfulness, you become optional.

Loving someone does not necessarily mean possessing them, but once you have them, you should cherish and protect them well.

In the end, it is discovered that the only one worth loving is that person. Sometimes, someone unknowingly enters your heart, and only when they move away do you gaze at them for a long time. This gaze is not the sweetness of love, but a silent longing, with a taste of bitterness mixed with astringency, which can only be savored alone.

Life is determined by me, not by heaven; happiness is determined by the heart, not by the environment. A rein can only restrain a tamed horse, and the god of fate can only dominate those who obediently submit to its whims. Happiness is a sweet feeling that requires the heart to perceive.