与其被动地等待别人爱你，不如主动地学会更深刻地爱自己。

原文英文

To conquer the world, one must first conquer oneself. Knowing what to do and what not to do is the fundamental prerequisite for achieving great things. As Maxim Gorky said, "Even a small act of self-restraint can make a person strong and powerful." Therefore, individuals should strive to overcome all bad habits.

If you argue like a couple, talk like friends, flirt like lovers, and protect each other like siblings, then you are destined to be together. Rather than passively waiting for others to love you, it is better to actively learn to love yourself more deeply.

Benefits should be given with moderation: do not give them lightly, do not bestow them indiscriminately, and do not be stingy with them. Things highly praised by the world are rarely within ordinary expectations. A good beginning should stimulate curiosity, rather than raising expectations excessively.

When facing current troubles, the best approach is to try to forget them temporarily and shift your attention to broaden your thinking. Otherwise, dwelling on them will only lead you deeper into the problem, making it hard to escape and increasing your worries.

I have spent my entire life learning the meaning of the two words: caution. Women and children may be careless at times, but men must always remain vigilant.