In reality, each of us carries a cross of various kinds every day, moving forward with difficulty. It may be our studies, our work, our emotions, or the responsibilities and obligations we must bear. Sometimes we feel immense pressure and exhaustion. However, it is not the problems themselves that trouble us, but rather our perspective on them.
Simplicity is the composure and calmness within our hearts; it is not demanding too much from life. Life has its successes and failures, its gatherings and partings. No one is blessed with unique advantages or holds absolute power. It is impossible to have both the fish and the bear's paw, which is the无奈 of life. A mature person can face all imperfections with equanimity, therefore not forcing things, not being stubborn, doing one's best, and accepting fate. Pursuing perfection is a noble ideal, but accepting incompleteness is a beautiful mindset.
Some people no longer need to meet again, and some matters no longer need to be remembered. When someone leaves, they are gone; when something is lost, it is lost. Life is a process of coming and going, and existence holds the possibility of gain and loss. Do not always dwell on the past or constantly imagine what once was. In this world, departure is common, and loss is nothing new. There is no need to sigh or regret. No matter who leaves whom, it is the end of a connection; no matter whether actions are right or wrong, they are part of the process.
Life itself is a series of goals. A life without goals is like a ship without a captain; it will forever drift in the sea and never reach the shore.
If a finger is dirty, there is no need to cut it off; if a hat is too small, there is no need to shave the head. To prove whether an egg has gone bad, there is no need to eat the whole thing.