If you don't know what your partner is doing outside, it is best not to try to find out, or you will only hurt yourself more. Some women constantly investigate whether their partners are loyal, but the result is usually one of two things: either infidelity is confirmed, in which case, are you willing to divorce? Can you support yourself? Can you guarantee that the next man will be better? Or the partner is actually loyal, and while you feel relieved, the partner inevitably loses trust in you.
Chinese people live under considerable pressure. As soon as a child is born, they become the hope of the entire family. Once a man starts a family, he becomes the pillar of the household, expected to bear the weight regardless of his capacity. Once a woman marries, she is expected to be a virtuous helper, complying with the role whether she wishes to or not. Children live in their parents' expectations, while parents live in the future of their children. In reality, everyone has an independent life; mutual independence combined with mutual support is the ideal family dynamic.
Life is essentially a solitary journey. Although others may accompany us for a while, we will eventually part ways. This is the answer time gives us: assuming we cannot possess everything, the only thing we can achieve is not to forget.
When people start to think, God laughs. When people start to think, history laughs. When people start to think, books laugh. When people start to think, masters laugh. When people start to think, they laugh at themselves.
There are many things we once cared about deeply, yet we can no longer name them. Emotions that were once intense and overwhelming are gradually diluted by time. That is life. The only thing I can truly control is ensuring that every time, I strive not to regret my actions.
It feels as if people alter their memories, making the beautiful even more beautiful, and the opposite vice versa.
