原文中文
若无意中揭人伤疤,难免给人“永不超生”之感。这种直肠子般的做法,实在不值得提倡。为人处世,确是一门深奥的学问。事事坦白直率,未必都是好事。正如俗语所言:“好女念头瞒”。诚然,有时将真相与真话赤裸裸地摊开,后果往往令人畏惧。做人不必如水晶玻璃般毫无保留,适当留白,留予他人追寻的空间,远比一味直言而得罪人更为高明。
句子以动名词短语Being candid...作主语,通过not always的否定结构,辩证地表达了观点,语气客观。
Accidentally exposing someone's scars can inevitably leave them feeling utterly defeated. Such blunt behavior is hardly worth advocating. Navigating relationships and handling matters is, indeed, a profound science. Being candid and straightforward about everything is not always a good thing. As the proverb goes, 'A good woman keeps her thoughts hidden.' Truly, there are times when laying bare the truth and facts is rather terrifying. One does not need to be as transparent as crystal glass; retaining a certain degree of mystery and allowing others to ponder is far superior to being blunt and offending people.
若无意中揭人伤疤,难免给人“永不超生”之感。这种直肠子般的做法,实在不值得提倡。为人处世,确是一门深奥的学问。事事坦白直率,未必都是好事。正如俗语所言:“好女念头瞒”。诚然,有时将真相与真话赤裸裸地摊开,后果往往令人畏惧。做人不必如水晶玻璃般毫无保留,适当留白,留予他人追寻的空间,远比一味直言而得罪人更为高明。