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如果你们能像夫妻那样坦诚地争吵，像朋友那样轻松地交谈，像初恋那样甜蜜地打情骂俏，像兄妹那样默契地保护对方，那么你们便是命中注定要走到一起的人。与其被动地等待别人来爱你，不如主动学习如何更多地爱自己。
Instead of passively waiting, learn to actively love yourself more.
不要被动地等待，要学会更主动地爱自己。
通过“passively”与“actively”的对比，突出了行动态度的转变，强调了自我关怀的重要性。
If you argue with the honesty of a couple, talk with the ease of friends, flirt with the sweetness of a first love, and protect each other with the bond of siblings, then you are destined to be together. Instead of passively waiting for someone else to love you, learn to actively love yourself more.
如果你们能像夫妻那样坦诚地争吵，像朋友那样轻松地交谈，像初恋那样甜蜜地打情骂俏，像兄妹那样默契地保护对方，那么你们便是命中注定要走到一起的人。与其被动地等待别人来爱你，不如主动学习如何更多地爱自己。
"Do not assume that being a man means you don't need self-care."
"Treat yourself well for your own sake, and live a good life for yourself."
"Learn to take the initiative to love yourself more."
"Life is short; we truly need to take good care of ourselves."
"No one truly cares how much mental energy you exhaust for them."