The name of a bystander never makes it onto the scoreboard of a competition.
The greatest tragedy in life is not losing too much yesterday, but drowning in the sadness of the past. Do not care excessively about certain people; if asked, simply say you have forgotten. Do not explain, do not grieve. Whether leaving or staying, it is all insignificant. Involuntarily trapped in an endless vortex, counting the disputes of the years, one can only piece together a few bits of misery. In the end, we all lose to time. The sourness and pain are best understood by oneself.
One should be detached in conduct and sincere in emotion. Think positively about everything; with a joyful heart thinking of joyful things, one naturally creates a joyful life. Conversely, if one thinks negatively about everything, the more one thinks, the bitter it becomes, eventually leading to a life of trouble. The world's affairs lie in a single thought. Our minds can conceive of heaven or hell. We will no longer wait.
Only dreams that would be mocked if spoken aloud are worth pursuing.
Additionally, scolding is indeed a method of educating children. There is a Chinese folk saying: "If you don't scold the child, they won't know the consequences." However, how to scold is a subject of great learning. Simple and crude scolding not only fails to make children submit or feel their parents' care but also easily provokes resistance. Once this rebellious psychology is formed, it creates alienation and conflict between parents and children.