该句使用分号连接两个并列的祈使句，前半句强调自我约束，后半句通过否定形式划定人际边界，结构工整且语气坚定。
Listen carefully to what others say with your heart; do not rush to express your own opinions.
Do not waste your life on things that you will certainly regret later.
When you are happy, remember that this happiness is not eternal. When you are in pain, remember that this pain is not eternal either.
Discipline yourself well; do not try to control others.
If you do not forgive or pardon others, you are only making life harder for yourself.
Do not pity others, for you may be more pitiable yourself. What about your own spiritual cultivation? How much do you truly understand of life?
Those with insufficient fortune often hear gossip and discord; those with sufficient fortune have never heard of such things.
You must always be grateful to the people who bring you adversity.
You must always forgive everyone, no matter how bad they are or even if they have hurt you. You must let go to find true happiness.
This world is inherently painful, without exception.
If you do not create trouble for yourself, others can never create trouble for you, for the source lies in your own inability to let go.
Only by knowing, conquering, and changing yourself can you change others.
It is not others who cause you pain, but rather a lack of your own cultivation.
The moment you let go is the moment you are free from distress.
Every wound is a form of maturation.
It is not pitiable when you know you are confused; it is truly pitiable when you do not know you are confused.
多用心去倾听别人怎么说，不要急着表达你自己的看法。
不要浪费你的生命，在你一定会后悔的地方上。
当你快乐时，你要想，这快乐不是永恒的。当你痛苦时你要想这痛苦也不是永恒的。
好好的管教你自己，不要管别人。
不宽恕众生，不原谅众生，是苦了你自己。
别说别人可怜，自己更可怜，自己修行又如何?自己又懂得人生多少?
福报不够的人，就会常常听到是非;福报够的人，从来就没听到过是非。
你永远要感谢给你逆境的众生。
你永远要宽恕众生，不论他有多坏，甚至他伤害过你，你一定要放下，才能得到真正的快乐。
这个世界本来就是痛苦的，没有例外的。
如果你不给自己烦恼，别人也永远不可能给你烦恼。因为你自己的内心，你放不下。
认识自己，降伏自己，改变自己，才能改变别人。
与其说是别人让你痛苦，不如说自己的修养不够。
你什么时候放下，什么时候就没有烦恼。
每一种创伤，都是一种成熟。
当你知道迷惑时，并不可怜，当你不知道迷惑时，才是最可怜的。
"If you cannot command yourself, you cannot command others."
"If there is something you want to do, start now rather than waiting for the future."
"This tells us that strong self-control is an indispensable part of persistence."
"You must complete the goals you set for yourself."
"Even when confused, do not drift with the current or live an unremarkable life."