This is the difference between a flower and a stone: a flower will be picked away, but a stone will not be taken away.
The word 'money' keeps us busy chasing after it for a lifetime, leaving our bodies exhausted. The word 'emotion' leaves us lost and confused for an entire life, leaving our hearts tired and wounded. In the end, very little truly belongs to us, and there is little love that remains unchanged. Taking things lightly is a necessity for survival, and seeing things clearly is the wisdom of being a person.
It is better to resolve disputes than to harbor grudges. In real life, we should have the magnanimity to forget resentment and the wisdom to let go.
Speaking is both an art and a method of dealing with others. We should be mindful of the occasion and timing of our words. When advising others, if we consider the environment or the other person's psychological state, we can give them a graceful way to back down, avoiding cutting off their path or embarrassing them. Otherwise, conflicts and misunderstandings will arise, leading to the loss of friends and setbacks. Therefore, we should learn to hint indirectly and approach matters from the side. When the other party does not require a direct answer, a concise and clear response will better achieve the purpose of communication.
With a silver tongue and sincere intention, you can lead an elephant with a hair.
When throwing a stone upwards, watch out for your head. Always be aware of potential consequences and risks.