In a Zen temple, a kingfisher sought a safer place to nest and chose a steep rock by the sea that was inaccessible to others. A few days later, it was swept away by the waves. The Zen master commented: "Because there is an enemy in the heart, every place feels like an enemy."
The greatest sorrow in life is wanting to be filial when one's parents are no longer here. The greatest tragedy is that the family is not yet wealthy but the relatives are gone first. The most pitiable fate is realizing what one should have done only when life is near its end.
Life is like a story; we are always enacting our own joys and sorrows within the narratives of others.
You become truly charming only when you stop trying to please everyone at all costs.
Some roads must be walked alone. This is not loneliness, but a choice. Dream the dreams you want, go to the places you wish to visit, and become the person you aspire to be. After all, you have only one life. It is better to run and fall countless times than to walk a lifetime in rigid conformity. Those who fear success will never succeed, and those who dare not pursue happiness will never taste it. Doing well by oneself is already difficult; compromising too much for others leads to losing oneself. Rather than envying others, strive to be a better version of yourself. Set a deadline for every worry, solve it with your best effort within that limited time, and dedicate the remaining time to your joyful self.